I don’t really pay close attention to pop culture these days, but Taylor is one famous face who I can’t seem to escape, and who’s troubles in the love department have captured my attention (and sympathy! All I know is this is a girl who gives her all to relationships, usually gets burned as a result, then makes millions writing songs about it.It doesn’t sound like such a bad deal, but I’ll bet that Taylor would happily exchange a lot of those millions to find true love. Like many women out there, Taylor can’t seem to resist the bad boys.A bad boy doesn’t just wake up one day and decide he no longer wants to be bad.That may happen in movies, but it definitely ain’t real life.
However, that’s child’s play compared to male celebrities who can have pretty much any girl, at any time, and do so with no strings attached.If Taylor Swift keeps going on the same track in the love department, she may want to consider naming her next album: “Maybe It’s Me.” Seriously, girlfriend is gorgeous, rich, talented, sweet, and yet she can’t–for the life of her—seem to hang onto a man for more than a few months. I do know people who have met and interviewed her though and by all accounts, she’s an incredibly kind and genuine person, which is not something you find too often in Hollywood.The purpose of this article is not to bash her, but rather, to learn from her.She’ll buy a home near the guy’s house, she’ll buy extravagant gifts, she’ll go above and beyond to accommodate him.While all these things are nice, and while she certainly has the means for it, it’s just too much to do all this for a guy you’ve only been seeing for a few months.One day she’s spotted hanging out with a guy, the next she’s showering him with lavish gifts and showing up at his family events. An unhealthy relationship, conversely, usually starts with a magnetic pull that sucks you into the other person’s reality and takes you over.