only to discover that when in a relationship with significant other, we really only experience one aspect of that brand of "love"...
the chemical particles that bounce around between sight, sound, smell and touch... Needless to say, to truly define true, unconditional love requires experiencing it.
I've enjoyed everything of hers that I've read and listened to so far, probably because they validate my own reflections and lessons learned over the years.
However, this docu-blog is from my reflections of my own experiences.
It is intended to inspire the reader to take full responsibility for their own journey.
This is how I've perceived the universal aspects of this relationship journey. We launch out in search of a love we think we'll recognize as soon as we see it...
Having been a consultant in the bricks and mortar dating industry for 9 years Jill has a unique skill set and background for the online dating industry.
So, we often settle for sub-standard brands and definitions that leave out the experience of .
Nevertheless, as I tuned in more to my own gut reactions and less to the person on the other side, the thought had occurred to me, what if we are only attracted to the of each other?
I soon realized that these thoughts and concerns were born from all of my previous experiences with men who had captivated me with their gifts and talents. All at once, I saw myself in my reflection of Music Man - who just so happens to have the same astrological sun, moon and ascendant signs as I do... I realized that I was somehow looking through my rearview mirror at a reflection of my former self, when I had done the same thing with others for whom I had a strong attraction.
And that was verified by his reaction to my choice to end the relationship after we finally met in person and spent enough time together for me to realize that I had been more in love with the .
Now on this dating site two years later, here is an accomplished singer-songwriter who has a fairly high level of notoriety in Paris and Australia.
And life is all inclusive: other beings, nature and the forces within, the plant world, the animal kingdom, the spirit world, and the cosmos working in unison to bring us opportunities for more experience and expression. shaking my head now as I break out of my philosopher's reverie and back to this reality... Exactly how does what I just said relate to what I'm going to say next? Well, when I first started online dating years ago, I would read profiles of those who first contacted me. this guy really thinks I'm funny, he likes my profile, my hair, my photos or something in particular about what I wrote that captured his attention.