It is not worth it to be in a relationship with someone who isn't interested in you as a person or who places so much emphasis on who else you slept with that he can't notice the person he's sleeping with—or that the person you are currently choosing to sleep with is him.And yet, every time a woman with a public history of unabashedly fulfilling her sexual needs get married—my former colleague Tracie at Jezebel and Jessica Cutler of Washingtonienne infamy come to mind—the slut-shamers come out of the closet to cluck their tongues and insist that women "like that" can never be and don't deserve to be happy. When someone like Jaclyn writes that she enjoys —you know, because only sluts enjoy sex with someone other than their long-term relationship partner—having sex outside of a relationship, they'll shout that she'll never be happy because, you know, slut.Everyone deserves that, and no one deserves to be made to feel shame for taking pleasure in the world (and people) around them.The world will be a better place when everyone loosens up and gets laid all they want. I've dated several good girls and it's never improved my relationships with them because they have other friends whom they share sexual interests..that leaves me out of something we can both enjoy.
If this topic is left quiet most likely the other person will find a secret life.
Yeah, because the guy she was seeing before you abused her emotionally for enjoying sex, sent out naked pictures to all of his friends and left her high and dry to the point where she was close to suicide.
Why don't you google how many young women have committed suicide because they were labeled a slut, and ironically enough many are virgins.
No man would want a pre-used vagina forever when he can till that earth himself for the first time without wondering if someone else had a bigger plow or a surer hand.
"Sluts" (you know, women who have sex) are either incapable of love, or incapable of being loved—or both, really.
Then the best way is to look for a SLUT who is easy going, wants to have fun and is searching for sex like yourself!