Similarly, you shouldn’t select your hair colour as “blonde” just because you had highlights last summer. Being specific gives your potential match a better idea of your mutual compatibility – not to mention ideas for dates. We’re not suggesting you give out your number to just anyone, but if you’re getting along well with your e-crush, try chatting over the phone.
When you hide or don’t tell some story of who you are, men either going to pass. (You don’t want him to post a photo with hair and then show up to your coffee date bald as a cue ball, do you?
Posting photos on your online dating profile can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women who are dating later in life.
Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge, but the posting pictures part is the hardest part for many.
And if you post old pics , they are going to feel duped when they meet you. It’s not pleasant.) There’s no reason to post a picture of you when you were 20 pounds lighter or 20 years younger. ) Stop worrying about how your body looks at your age and remember: you’re not 30 and you’re not supposed to look like you’re 30.
Men appreciate REAL women and want to see that in your photos, so don’t try to hide yourself.
Men are trying decide whether they might like you; not whether you look like a fashion model.