We have always shared everything except for the obvious, boyfriends.I know my younger sister have always looked up to me but our choice in men have always been different.To disappear the effects of such perpetrations use A part of what this is about for your parents is that each has yet to acknowledged his/her cause in the mess; specifically, that their daughters have had no choice other than to mirror the integrity of their parents. Most parents hypocritically espouse honesty but harbor between themselves. For you to present this ultimatum to him you must be willing to let him go.Who taught you and your sister that it was OK to date married men and thwart others for selfish gratification? Both you and your sister have been unconsciously doing your best to make sure your parents suffer for life's communications (whatever they "did" to you). There is an in your relationship with your sister and both parents. People who are complete with each other, with whom there is an experience of love and respect, do not create these kinds of problems for each other. By choosing to experience the pain and hurt that will come from being willing to let him go you will experience a transformation.After me and my ex decided that the best thing would be for us to go our seperate ways, my sister decided to go after him and I’m not quite sure how it is I feel about this.
Dear Annie: Many years ago, my younger sister, "Liz," had an affair with a married man who later left his wife and married Liz.
You are all dramatizing the incompletes in your relationships with each other—childhood that each of you have suppressed. Yet we know that at some level the attraction, and the intention to be with him, was there. She was in fact communicating (non-verbally) her considerations against you dating him.
For you the incompletes have to do with responsibility. Just because you are not aware of how you produced a result doesn't mean you didn't produce it.
For a second marriage to work he must be able to describe how he masterminded the divorce—so that you can tell when he's doing it again but with another part of what this could be about for your sister is that she arrogantly thinks that there were no consequences for deceitfully having sex behind the backs of your parents—and, for supporting Steve in having sex behind the backs of his parents and possibly behind the back of his then wife. He could not bring himself to tell you and your sister the truth, up front, so he did his "friend" act. We know by the results his leadership communication-skills produced. There is a way to effect harmony, however, it can't be done with your present leadership-communication skills.
Dating someone who supports deceit always always produces undesirable karma. It won't work for you to continue dating him except that he agrees (at your insistence) to complete 24-hours of coaching, therapy, or counseling, alone, without you.
You have yet to realize just how powerful you are and what you accomplished via conscious and unconscious intentions—it's referred to as psychic hexing—for more about hexing read .