To me Oasis wasn't free, because my time is valuable, and I'd rather spend it meeting someone over coffee at a cafe than waste my time reading thru useless messages.
I just discovered Oasis and ended up here while searching around for what people have been saying about it.
Can't blame the site too much when it's free, as obviously they can't afford staff to vet everything. It can only give RSVP et al some healthy competition and encourage them to be more fair with fee structures.The women online seem two-faced, completely hollow and devoid of any imagination.Most are after preferably 'hot guys' with ooodles of cash and no children despite the fact that they themself have children.I believe that they get more attention on Oasis Active than they do in real life.Often very flattering attention so there may not be a great incentive to leave Oasis Active.if you like those sorts of people, then internet dating may be for you. I'm getting out into the real world where I can avoid the false advertising of artifical made-up dolls with a woman who can't stand up without a team of Party-officials (friends) telling her what to do every step of the way.