Your date wants to get to know you, not the version of you that just graduated from charm school.
Trying to anticipate the right thing to do is exhausting and impossible. The only feelings you can be certain of are your own.
Many of us have a vague recollection of someone we think we scared off with too much attention too soon or a person we ourselves rebuffed for being a bit thirsty. Fear not, I will provide you with the perfect solution to your texting woes that works differently yet exceptionally in every situation.
I often hear people describe dating as exhausting and stressful. This can often be the case because people feel as if they need to be on their best behavior.
Instead of daydreaming, I’ve found a great thing to do is simply reflect.
You enter your room, sit on your chair and stay quiet with your thoughts. You take a moment to reflect on the person whose company you kept.
Assumptions based on miscommunication can affect a relationship before it’s had the time to grow stronger and become accustomed to surpassing the little things.
I remind myself that my purpose is not to mislead anyone.
You don’t need to trick them with your ability to do a headstand, celebrities you’re vaguely acquainted to or how many times you’ve completed back to back spinning classes. This is about making a match, not creating an illusion you have to sustain.
When you love and accept yourself - the possibilities are infinite.
This is basic dating advice; even if your social life isn’t buzzing with activity, act as though it is.
Be who you are and attract someone who is looking for someone just like you.
[image: via aaronisnotcool on flickr] Ready for conscious, like-minded individuals you really want to meet?
Never anything to do with the sender, it just happens that way.