You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle.
While this may seem like a much-needed break, there is potential for you to end up at a home-dinner party socializing with a group that may tell you about their son or daughter that is “just about your age.” Awkward. Dating someone 20 to 30 years older than you means you’re probably going to see time take its toll in many ways.
You might love his deep pockets, but with his great power comes your vulnerability.
There is potential that you could never be financially equal to him, accepting this is key.
Assess Your Social Circles Take an honest look at your friends and anyone else who is a recurring character in your social life. The next time we ran into each other was when I went to interview for a job in the ski resort's lift department, which he happened to be in charge of. I think he can't really find a woman to keep up with him, even in his own age group. The man I dated was essentially an 18-year-old himself when it came to maturity. Her older brother had invited a bunch of the people they worked with at the mountain over and I happened to be there. I think he was attracted to me because I asked him out, and I was able to banter with him off the bat.Do your homework and get to know your new crush well before you let yourself truly fall in love.You’d never guess, but caution can, in fact, lead to powerful lasting love. Rather than asking him or her such questions directly, lay low and gather your information over time.