False Self’s aren’t real, they don’t take responsibility and they purposefully avoid Non-narcissistic people who decide to ‘just get on with it’ after emotional trauma, truly do so at their own peril.They ‘go’ through pain (more like bulldoze through it) but they never deal with it.Melanie's healing and teaching methods have liberated thousands of people from the effects of narcissistic abuse world-wide.Or perhaps you received the hoovering – he or she professing undying love for you as an attempt to get you back in to the relationship, yet the next thing you see on Facebook, or hear from friends is that the narcissist has moved on and is having You may be thinking why isn’t the narcissist suffering like you are? And why isn’t he or she bedridden, crippled with agoraphobia, barely able to engage in life, or struggling to eat and sleep like I am??For the first time in life I focused on valuing my emotional state, my emotional freedom, and the joy of loving myself for who I was as an authentic person, who would know .I turned my little unit into a haven of love, a haven to heal and a place to have beautiful people visit in order to share joy, love and truth.There is no end to using up people and commodities, burning them out and having to keep moving on.
After separating I moved from a beautiful large property to a small unit with a mortgage. Was my ex-narcissist dating, wining, dining, buying new and better cars and having a wow of a time? Obviously staying a victim to all of this was not going to serve me.
Truly when you feel into this, you will know without a doubt that love, joy, connectedness and true genuine peace is a that would make us happy.
When we lost these things we thought we had lost our life, lost our joy and lost everything we thought our life should be.
But please understand material possessions cannot grant genuine happiness.
Bliss, joy, connection to life, source and self is never achieved through material possessions, activities or other people, it is only ever achieved through our soul, through our connection to our True Self.
People that avoid doing this don’t have this opportunity.